Tips for Responsible Parenting in the Face of Breast Cancer

Tips for Responsible Parenting in the Face of Breast Cancer

One of the hardest things about breast cancer is that it affects more than just you. It is particularly difficult when you have been diagnosed with breast cancer and be a parent at the same time. Being a parent is one of the best things that one can experience in this life. We make sure that we do what we can to help them become well-adjusted adults when it is time for them to face the world on their own.

The trouble with cancer—especially breast cancer—is that it can be an extremely trying event in the lives of children; regardless of their age. Children often feel things quite differently and despite the most behaved or well-mannered children, there will still be negative effects in the face of breast cancer in the family. When cancer enters the family, children will go through psychological and psychosocial turbulence in their lives. If this is something that your family is presently going through, we hope that these tips will work for you:

Be Honest

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Honesty is the best policy when it comes to your diagnosis—it always has been and it always will be. You need to sit down with your kids and talk to them about what you are going to be going through. There have been enough stories about mothers that hide their diagnosis until it’s too late. Do not rob your children the chance to say good-bye if it comes down to it. Do not rob them of the opportunity to prepare themselves to help you. You would be surprised at what strength children are able to show.

Don’t Go Into Parenting Overdrive

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The trouble with cancer is that you can feel like your time is either running out or is already cut shorter than it should be. So it can be pretty hard to strike a balance between being a good parent and being one that is rushing to impart all the lessons before the students are ready. A good thing to do is to write letters—impart your knowledge that way so that your kids will always have something to go back to when they’re grown up.

Before You Go

You can do this. It may seem impossible at times but that’s the way that parenting has always been. This is another curve that life has thrown at you and that does not mean that you should bow out of the game of life. You’ve gotten this far and this is another stage in your life that will make you a remarkable person.

What parenting tip in the face of breast cancer would you like to share?

So You Got Diagnosed: What Should Your Next Step Be?

So You Got Diagnosed: What Should Your Next Step Be?

When you get diagnosed with a serious illness, time can seemingly stop for a while. Your mind can seemingly run a million miles a minute. However, it is important to understand that there are certain steps that need to be taken. Today, we wanted to discuss what you should consider as your next steps after getting a diagnosis. For clarification purposes, we’re going to focus on getting a diagnosis for breast cancer.

Take a Step Back

Getting a serious diagnosis can be quite a shock. It is important that you are able to come to terms with the diagnosis first before you are able to address the other necessary steps.

Bring in a Partner

If you cannot seem to come to terms with things and have difficult moving past this step, we suggest that you bring in someone that you trust to help you with this. Do not restrict yourself with the term ‘partner’. This can refer to anyone in your life that you trust implicitly—someone that you know will have your best interest at heart and will support you in your coming journey.

Start Organizing Your Life

This doesn’t mean that you should do anything drastic. Instead, consider streamlining your errands, activities, and all other things. Your details should be in order like your next doctor’s appointment, medication schedule, or even your next treatment.

Talk to Your Physician of Choice

Once you are able to at least acknowledge that you have been diagnosed with breast cancer, it would be important to talk to your healthcare provider. They will be able to give you an idea of the options that you can pursue when it comes to your diagnosis.

Get Social

One thing you will realize is that you are not the only one that is undergoing this change in life. There are countless others that are in the midst of their own trials. It would do you go to meet other people like yourself. As helpful as your support group is, getting the chance to talk to someone going through the same thing is a different thing altogether.

Before You Go

We know that you are going through something extremely difficult. We are with you in this fight. We hope that you will utilize this site and the information contained within to better prepare yourself and your loved ones with what is to come. We hope that you choices lead you to an elevated quality of living and that you do not feel restricted because of your diagnosis.

With that said, what steps would you take after receiving such a diagnosis?

Experts Weigh In: How Your Family Can Help or Hinder Recovery

Experts Weigh In: How Your Family Can Help or Hinder Recovery

The interesting about family is that they can either be the source of our strength or our damage. When it comes to someone that is fighting a serious illness, let’s take a look at how family can either help or hinder recovery.

Support That Counts

Any physician will tell you that your support system is a critical part of your journey in dealing with an illness—especially one as serious as cancer. It is the people around you that will be able to provide you with the push that you need whenever you feel like giving up the fight. There have been countless stories of people who have been saved by their support system after they believed that they had reached the end of the line.

It is a terrible fact of life that not everyone’s family will be that helpful when it comes to being supportive. In fact, this is when the true nature of most people bubble up into the surface. Here are a few ways that your family can help or hinder your recovery:


  • Reminding you about appointments – family members can really help your recovery when they take an initiative to remind you about your doctor’s appointments. Bonus points if they actually take you to your appointments.
  • Acting as your sounding board – family members are in the perfect position to be able an effective sounding board for your ideas and your feelings. Being able to talk about your feelings in a safe space is a great way to relieve yourself of any stress or anxiety.


  • Putting their needs before yours – it is understandable that the world does not stop because you’ve gotten ill. However, a family unit needs to be able to adjust to the fact that someone in their life has an illness and will need a bit more consideration.
  • Disregarding your personal wishes – what we believe needs a bit more emphasis is the fact that not everyone who has been diagnosed with a serious illness will want to undergo treatment. While treatment does not always go hand in hand with recovery, some family members feel the need to push their personal preferences over the one who is ill. If this happens to you, do not hesitate to push for your rights and use your voice.

Before You Go

It is completely acceptable—even advisable—to cut off toxic family members. Right now, your priority should be yourself and how you will be able to achieve your best sense of self while battling an illness. Yes, family can be important but what is more important is that you are able to provide an actual supportive set of people that you can rely on.

On a personal standpoint, how do you think your family can help or hinder your recovery?

Channeling Your Pain: Artistic Ways You Can Express Your Feelings

Channeling Your Pain: Artistic Ways You Can Express Your Feelings

Living with cancer is never easy. You will always be struggling with more than just your physical health. Your emotions and your relationships with suffer as well—which is why it is important to find ways to find different ways to express your feelings. Luckily, creative arts therapy is now a full-fledge option for anyone experiencing any sort of pain or disturbance to their otherwise regular lives.

What is Creative Art Therapy?

This is the theory that creative activities which include arts, crafts, or even other artistic pursuits like dance or sculpting provide a good conduit that promotes healing. Creative art therapy has been known to help with:

  • Anxiety
  • Stress
  • Fears
  • Unsettled emotions
  • Anger

Creative art therapy is something that is being applied to a multitude of healthcare centers which deal with serious illnesses. Creative art therapy is something that has been known to help patients of varying age and infirmity. What is great is that there are a lot of different artistic options that you can pursue.


We’ve mentioned a few ways you could express your pain through art. What other people ay not realize is that there are other creative ways to show your pain. Like:


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This is something that has recently surged in popularity. A lot of craft stores now offer classes that focus on calligraphy. This particular art form can be used in journaling and making cards. Calligraphy is good because it introduces the idea of masterful strokes and controlled ink application to get a desired effect.

Spoken Word Poetry

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You would be surprised at how much poetry can really help expressing thoughts and feelings. There are always local businesses that host poetry night. Many of these nights are comprised of individuals with their own crosses to bear. Being around such individuals can help you express your own thoughts and feelings.

Dungeons and Dragons RPG

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An RPG (role-playing game) is a fantastic way to express your creativity. You get to take a break from your reality and explore the facets of a new life and a new identity. The different situations can help exercise your mind and your emotions. You can let loose as much as you want while still staying true to the character that you’ve chosen to build.

Before You Go

You do not have go full on into creative mode if you do not feel like it. What we do hope for is that you consider expressing your thoughts through an art form that you are comfortable with. Not everyone is all that comfortable in talking to someone else about their feelings. If you aren’t artistic, you can consider writing down your thoughts in a journal. Words count as art as well.

Which particular artistic ways would you consider trying out?

5 Steps to Keeping Your Kids Safe & Healthy Near the Pool

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Summer is upon u! A quick dip in the soothing waters of the swimming pool will do a great job of cooling off every member of your family (including your youngest). It becomes a central family activity during such hot times of the year. Speaking of the young, you may be concerned about your kids’ safety around the pool and may be wondering the best ways to keep them secure whilst you spend some quality family time near it. As naturally inquisitive creatures, children will not have a high regard for any pool safety rules that you may wish to establish. Logic would state that teach them how to swim as soon as possible. And when you are not around, aim to minimize access to the pool area.

Regardless of this, you must watch your children like a hawk and never take your eyes off them. However, apart from intense visual scrutiny, there are times when you may not be around and may need to take additional precautions to ensure safety around the pool. Fortunately, Willsha Pools who are a Full-Service Pool & Outdoor Living Company serving DFW Metroplex have five important steps you can implement to achieve this objective and thus, enjoy peace of mind.

Lock the Door & Windows

It is possible that you either own an outdoor pool or an indoor one. No matter what the nature of the pool area, you must insert locks to ensure nobody can enter the vicinity. These locks must be unbreakable. It is highly recommended that such strong locks be installed on every door and window that leads to the pool. An unfortunate number of drownings have occurred in the past due to parents not realizing that their children have figured out how to open the door knob and sneak into the pool area. All pet-friendly doors must be locked as well. Kids tend to be small in size and can squeeze in without you knowing. We know it sounds really scary, but is not prevention better than any form of cure?

Put in an Alarm

Here is an additional tip to go along with locks on doors and windows: install an alarm system that will sound off whenever a door or window is disturbed outside normal pool hours. Not only that, an alarm in the pool area will warn you when a child is entering the swimming pool premises without adult supervision or permission.

There is another type of pool alarm that you can consider procuring. It goes off when a weighty object enters the water (such as a human being). This kind of alarm has to be frequently tested to ensure reliability and functionality. Also, you have to be in close proximity to hear it and make it back to the pool in time to rescue or check who is present in the swimming pool. You could also invest in those pool alarms that create a beam of light around the pool if someone enters. However, if the beam fails to launch, then a loud sound will ring out to signal the concerned authorities of the breach.

Cover the Pool

Pool covers are an effective instrument via which you can cut off a child’s access to the swimming pool. Their very design is meant to kids out when used in the correct fashion. Do bear in mind that a pool cover must be able to support weight equivalent to that of an average adult’s. Place the pool cover securely in its position to ensure that nobody can jump in. Hosting a pool party or just having a fun family time frolicking around in the swimming pool? Then, take off the pool cover immediately and toss it aside. This will make sure that nobody gets stuck underneath it.

The one thing you must be conscious off is that if the weather changes from sunny to rainy, rainwater may collect in the cover and will have to be removed immediately. Feel free to pump it or drain the water away. It may surprise you but even mere inches of rainwater in a wet pool cover can prove to be a jeopardy for a child. When you place the pool cover in its place, make sure you lock it once you are away so that nobody can remove it in your absence.

Take Up Swimming Lessons

We spend the first nine months of our lives in water within our mothers’ wombs. As natural water babies, it is never too early to teach your child how to swim. Of course, we do not mean new-borns! Check with your family paediatrician and see what his recommendation is. Children that fall within the age bracket of one to four years are generally considered to be old enough to learn how to swim. Of course, you still need to be around them when they are learning how to swim and even when they become little mermaids within the pool. Get them to wear life preservers or personal flotation devices (such as arms bands) that will keep them above the surface of the swimming pool water.

Put Up A Pool Fence

This is a worthy option to consider. Put up a barrier or fence around your swimming pool along with an entrance gate that can be locked when nobody is around to supervise children. Check with your local town centre and see if there are any regulations or laws in place that guide the installation of domestic and/or residential pool fences. We do recommend that pool fences should be a minimum of five feet in height and not have any spaces in between. You do not want your child trying to squeeze in and getting stuck in the process! That would be as bad! Go a step further and incorporate a sign that says no entrance without adult supervision. If you are one of the smart ones who opt to invest in pool insurance, then your insurance service provider may not even evaluate your application if there is no pool fence installed to ensure maximum child safety.





Knowledge Counts: Why You Should Keep Abreast of Any Symposium Updates

Knowledge Counts: Why You Should Keep Abreast of Any Symposium Updates

One of the best things to do when you’re trying to find out more information about caner or an illness is to attend symposiums that heavily feature it. Today, we look at why you should keep abreast of any symposium updates.

What is a Symposium?

A symposium is another way to refer to a conference or a massive meeting which is gathered specifically to discuss a certain topic. One topic that regularly has symposiums and forums would be health. This is because the medical field is constantly changing. What was once found to be the only and absolute best way to treat an illness may not necessarily be true a year later.

Why is being updated important?

If you’ve been thinking of attending a symposium, chances are the announcement for it was made a year previously. Here are a few good reasons why you should stay abreast of any updates to your chosen symposium:

Saves you money

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Larger symposiums are often held in places that are able to hold a large quantity of people. So they will normally be held in large cities. If there are any changes that arise, it would save you a lot of money to be informed about it. If the symposium moves its dates, you can be prepared and move any travel dates or add any further plans.

Helps prioritize events

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Symposiums often go for several days at a time. If you’re not planning on visiting each day of it given that they discuss several medical fields on different days, it would really help you plan your trip better if you are updated. You can simply choose to go on the date that will be about the medical discussion that you deem is relevant to you.

Disburse information better

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If you happen to be the person assigned to keep abreast of information, it would truly help those you are designated to inform if you have the right data to give them. If you stay abreast of any updates, you limit the chances of any misinformation or misunderstandings getting out.

Before You Go

We’re proud of the fact that you are looking into attending symposiums that discuss health. Empowering yourself with updated and critical knowledge can mean the difference between the feeling of helplessness and a carefully crafted attack against what’s ailing you. When it comes to illnesses like cancer, time and information are critical.

So in your own thoughts, why do you think you should keep abreast of any symposium updates?

You Are Not Alone: Three Reasons Why You Should Reach Out After a Breast Cancer Diagnosis

You Are Not Alone: Three Reasons Why You Should Reach Out After a Breast Cancer Diagnosis

When it comes to dealing with the harsh reality of metastatic breast cancer, it is important to realize that you are not alone and that this is not the end of the line. If you do receive such a diagnosis, we want to emphasize the importance of reaching out.

Why Reach Out?

When it comes to breast cancer, it is quite critical that you do not keep this to yourself. Here are a few good reasons why you should reach out:

You Need a Stabilizer

Getting a dreadful diagnosis will undoubtedly knock the wind out of your sails. No one has been immune to this. Yes, even some of the members of our writing team have personally experienced this and do know what they are talking about. Reaching out to someone—preferably someone you trust—will help you stabilize your thoughts and your feelings. This stabilizer could also work as a sounding board for all your thoughts, fears, and concerns. Think Carrie Bradshaw for Samantha Jones during her breast cancer scare.

You Need Information

This understandably a rather difficult moment in your life and it is important that you realize that the decisions that you make after you get your diagnosis will determine your overall health. In order to secure the best sort of choices for yourself, you need information. Support groups and organizations collect as much information as they possibly can in order to give people data to help shape their choices.

You Need to Meet Other People like You

They say that misery loves company but when it comes to breast cancer, misery is just a part of a beautiful package. People in general take their strength from the people that surround them. So in this precarious time in your life, it would be important to surround yourself with people that have already been where you presently are. Allow their knowledge and experience set a path for you to follow.

Before You Go

You are stronger than your diagnosis. More and more women are now living and thriving with MBC. Just because you’ve received some difficult news does not mean that there is nothing else that you can do with your life. Yes, there is going to be a lot of difficulty but you are never alone in this fight. There are several organization and even women who all band together to provide care and support for those diagnosed with MBC.

Why do you think it is important to reach out after a breast cancer diagnosis?

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Test Result Talk: What Different Ways Can a Patient Receive a Result?

Test Result Talk: What Different Ways Can a Patient Receive a Result?

One’s health can be a pretty precarious thing to address. Usually, when someone feels that something is wrong, we go to a doctor, undergo some tests, and wait for the result. When it comes to dealing with something incredibly challenging like waiting to get a result of a doctor’s appointment that may possibly carry bad news, are there other ways to receive it?

Actually, there are

When it comes to getting the results of an examination, our choices are no longer as linear as they used to be. We would like to emphasize that while you are able to receive your results in a variety of ways, you will still need to return to your physician. It is always best to get a follow-up to see if there is anything else that needs to be done.

Nowadays, your chosen healthcare professional can get results to you in several ways. Here are some of them:


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Results can now be received through your computer or phone. Your physician can send you your test results along with any instruction to return for additional testing, necessary treatments, or a comprehensive explanation of your results. A lot of the time, however, patients tend to not check their mail effectively. There are certain times when critical emails are sent to the spam folder.

While email is an swift method, it may not entirely be effective.

Phone Call

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If you’re the type of person that would rather be told things rather than be asked to read something, you can hand over your phone number to your physician. From there, they will be able to give you the result of your testing. They can also give you better tips on what comes next. This is one of the biggest reasons why getting a result via phone call is one of the preferred methods.

Via a Family Member

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If you would prefer to have the news broken to you by a trusted family member (or a friend) you can have them speak to your physician. That way, your healthcare specialist will know and can sufficiently guide the messenger how to best break the news.

Before You Go

You do have a choice when it comes to how you choose to receive your news. There are a lot of options waiting for you—all you have to do is choose. The method you choose should be something you are wholly comfortable with. What is more important is not how you receive the message; it is what you choose to do with the message once you have received it.

How would you choose to receive a patient result?

All in This Together: Benefits of Joining Communities Interested in Health Talks

All in This Together: Benefits of Joining Communities Interested in Health Talks

When it comes to the topic of health, it is important to know that you are not alone in this. Everyone is interested and invested in better health—especially when there is illness present. Today, we wanted to discuss some of the very real benefits of joining communities that are interested in health talks.

If you join a community that’s focused on the topic of health (like BCSM Community) you benefit from:

Supportive People

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There is nothing quite like the support of people who are going through the same thing. When dealing with a serious illness, the support of people who truly understand can help A LOT. Organic sympathy counts more than any well-made wish by someone who has never been ill.

Tested Knowledge Pool

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Communities (whether organization online or offline) spend a lot of their time trying to gather as much as useful information as they can. The ones that are usually part of such communities are those who personally are ill or presently have someone in their life that is. As such, the advice that they can dispense is more reliable.

Discounts and Treats

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Communities whether offline or online regularly have events. These events can involve healthcare professionals which often offer their expertise at a bigger discount that usual. There will also be a great opportunity to help support the ventures that are made to help fund a treatment. A lot of families and friends of people who are ill pull together and sell wares that are building toward a fund.

Before You Go

With each and every year that passes, there are better discoveries being made in the world of medicine. Being part of communities will help improve your chances of hearing about it and your interactions with other people in the community may even spark these discoveries. No matter where you are, you affect a change simply by being there.

What benefits did you reap when you joined a community focused on discussing health and wellness?